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Online Divorce?
I am currently separated and
wanting to get a divorce. One
of my friends, who is also
separated, told me about
quickie online divorces where
you dont need a lawyer.
I looked up the info, it cost
under $300 to download the
paperwork, you fill it out,
take it to the courthouse for
a judge to stamp....and thats
it!
I want to make sure this is
legit, I have been with my
husband for over a decade, we
are in the midst of selling
our house, and we have 2 kids
together.
I was wondering if anyone else
has done this before? If so,
what website would you
recommend, was it fairly easy
to do, ect. ect?
Thanks--
As a response, yes I do
realize that its a sad thing
that you can divorce with such
ease....BUT, if not, you would
just be spending thousands of
dollars on a lawyer, not to
mention precious time.
I know that I do not want to
make things work with my
husband, after 11 years
together he lost 3 jobs in the
past year due to drugs--even
after drug rehab.
The little money we had left
in the bank, he spent it on
himself and left me with
nothing. I have no job, I was
a full time student and
mom....now I am busting my
butt looking for work.
Now that he has moved in with
his parents, he is not even
helping me with the house to
get it prepped for sale, I am
doing it all on my own. After
the sale of the house, I have
nowhere to go.
He is never nice to me now
that I want a divorce, unless
he wants me to do something
for him...then he manipulates
me!
We have gone through a lot of
ups and downs for the past
decade....but now, I am done!
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oh wow I have never heard of this before so I just did a quick search and opened up the first link... if you go here: http://www.completecase.com/ and scroll down a bit on the left side you can get some links to media links about their website. I thought it wouldn't be legit but it sounds like people can really do so. its kind of sad in a way too, though, that divorce can be so easy. I mean, yes, many people should get divorced... but many people also just might be able to save their marriage with counseling.... yet divorce always seems to be too easy of a solution for so many... (I am not speaking about you... just generally) ************************ Edited ************************ I wasn't speaking about your situation specifically... just in general.. I am sorry for what your husband did and is doing to you... he is an a** |
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Can I seriously suggest you consult a lawyer. You speak of putting the house up for sale and you have no-where to go when it is sold. You have 2 kids together, so that makes the situation a little more complicated than just a divorce. If you see a lawyer, there is a strong possibility that the house may not have to be sold because of the children. A judge can order that you and the kids are to stay in the house. In a lot of cases the first consultation with a lawyer is free. Why not make a few phonecalls and see what your options are. |
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An on-line divorce may not be for you. Consider legal custody of the children. Consider that your husband might try to make things messy. Consider that if the children are to be in your custody then the court will probably let you have the house. It is up to you but I think it is in your best interests to find an attorney. Good luck.. |
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